In their blind spot

 The relationship ended, it's an all too familiar experience. Everything going along fine until I step into their blind spot. If I speak about what I see in their blind spot the chaos is created. If I try to speak quickly I'm told to calm down, If I try to speak plainly I'm told I'm seeking attention, and quickly ignored. If I present it as humor, I'm called crazy. If I say nothing, I'm called difficult. Is there a way to create the space for a meaningful conversation to happen. I don't think it is impossible, or even rare. I just happen to notice it most in people when it exists, but not when it doesn't.