Saying sorry means I acknowledge there is a problem. It also means I want to continue guessing what the problem. It also means (I think) I know what caused this and I don't want any additional input from you because (I think) I know what you are thinking and feeling.
Here is an alternative:
Do you forgive me?
Can you forgive me?
This leaves room for the conversation to begin where two people are actually communicating in the here and now.
The answer could be:
"Yes I can forgive you" "Can you understand I would like the opportunity react in my own way without having to calculate my reactions to fit some planned out strategy?"
"There are a million conversation waiting to be had."
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